FAQs

Mistress Malisandre’s Guide to Serving Me

If you have questions, you’ll likely find the answers here. To respect both My time and yours, read this page thoroughly before contacting Me.

What are your boundaries? There are certain activities I do not entertain, and I expect you to understand them before even considering approaching Me:

  • Absolutely no sexual activities

  • Adult baby scenarios

  • Brown showers

  • Competitive wrestling (though submission holds are acceptable)

  • Enemas

  • Scripted scenes

What is your availability? I offer sessions Monday through Sunday from 11 AM to 10 PM. Be mindful of this when planning your time with Me.

What do you offer? I provide a range of opportunities for you to serve, including but not limited to:

  • In-person sessions

  • Social and shopping outings

  • Cash meets

  • Texting via Obedience App

How do I book a session with You? As I receive many requests, booking a session requires patience. It may take 1-2 weeks to schedule an appointment. For new submissives, I require at least 72 hours' notice, while returning submissives should provide 48 hours' notice. New applicants must complete the questionnaire on My Submit page. This allows Me to gauge your desires and determine if you are worthy of serving Me.

Can I make a same-day appointment? Same-day appointments are rare due to My demanding schedule. If I happen to have availability, My tribute will be double, and a 50% deposit is required to secure the session.

Do You have a late/cancellation policy? If you are late, I expect to be compensated for the full session time. Should you cancel after sending a deposit, it is forfeited entirely.

For sessions lasting 1-3 hours, a 48-hour cancellation policy applies. If you cancel within less than 48 hours, you will owe 50% of the session tribute, without exception.

For sessions lasting more than 3 hours, there is a 72-hour cancellation policy. I will keep your deposit, and the next session you book will require a non-refundable deposit.

I understand life happens, but your cancellations affect not just Me, but also the other Dominas with whom I share My space.

Do You offer phone/distance domination sessions? Yes, I do. You’ll need to fill out the questionnaire on My Submit page and indicate your interest in distance domination.

Can I be Your personal slave? Becoming My personal slave is an honor, and I do not take it lightly. A rigorous training period is required to determine if you are suitable. You will demonstrate your devotion through service and gifts. Freeloaders need not apply.

Can I bring You a gift? Gifts are not expected but are always appreciated, especially when thoughtful. I have a taste for fine literature, luxury lingerie, and high-end shoes. Visit My Devotion page to see more about what pleases Me.

Do You play with novices? Yes, I enjoy introducing new submissives to the world of BDSM. Exploring together can be a rewarding experience if you approach Me with an open mind and a respectful attitude.

What is Your ideal submissive? My ideal submissive is someone who has taken the time to read through My website thoroughly, follows My instructions to the letter, and respects My time. I expect all My submissives to be mentally and physically prepared for each session. Cleanliness and excellent hygiene are non-negotiable.

What is Your favorite activity? What I value most in a session is the energy exchange. That connection between Us is far more significant than any single activity. I’ve had memorable sessions ranging from light BDSM to intense corporal punishments, but it’s the energy We share that defines the experience.

Are you ready to submit? Then proceed wisely.